Everyone and everything has a history as times weans away. The memories will be good or bad and may fade away as the sickle of time runs its rounds. However in many people's lives their past plays a prominent role, bringing out heartbreaking experiences at some instances. Know how to get rid of your oppressing past and to lead a life of success.
People often remember their past bad experiences at many instances in the present life. Lovers who have suffered the worst experience of rejection may not be able to trust the next person in their lives. It is the same case with lovers who have endured an abusive relationship. They may even have the misconceptions of abuse even when others correct them for genuine mistakes. The most severe cases are those when people come out of relationships that they had forced into. These people may even turn into misogynists who have been denied of the bliss of love forever.
People who had a happier past than their present lives may always crave for their lost glories. They may miss their loved one or the love they had received at most instances. If they are engaged with a new partner, they may often show the tendency to compare him/her with their ex-lover. The feeling that they may never receive the old love and caring will often put them into unhappiness and depressions. This in turn may spoil the happiness of their partners and those around the person too.
People often remember their past bad experiences at many instances in the present life. Lovers who have suffered the worst experience of rejection may not be able to trust the next person in their lives. It is the same case with lovers who have endured an abusive relationship. They may even have the misconceptions of abuse even when others correct them for genuine mistakes. The most severe cases are those when people come out of relationships that they had forced into. These people may even turn into misogynists who have been denied of the bliss of love forever.
People who had a happier past than their present lives may always crave for their lost glories. They may miss their loved one or the love they had received at most instances. If they are engaged with a new partner, they may often show the tendency to compare him/her with their ex-lover. The feeling that they may never receive the old love and caring will often put them into unhappiness and depressions. This in turn may spoil the happiness of their partners and those around the person too.
The third group of people who are haunted by their past are quite dangerous people. They may often blame their past relations for their imagined unhappiness and would all set to spoil their ex-relations' lives. They may try to bring back the lost happiness in their past by force. These people's obsession with the past will spoil the peace of their loves as well as others' lives.
If you are a person suffering from your past; it is time for you to wake up. You present life may be a better one than the traumas that you had experienced in the past. On the other hand if you want to relive the past happy moments, consider why you had stepped out of those happy moments. You must do this without comparing your present life with the past. Surprisingly you may find that there is factor that prompted you out of those moments that give happiness and zest to your present life.
Always remember that when you succumb to your past, you are damaging your happiness as well as those related to you. Once you get out of a relationship, you must be ready to close the chapter there forever. There is no turning back and you must be brave at heart to face the consequences. Once you are brave at heart, neither your past nor the haunting ghosts from past can haul you to the unnecessary pits of misery.
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