Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Are you compatible with that special someone you just met?


Love at first sight, is what happen with most of the people in love relationships. Two of them meet somewhere , most often coincidently, eyes collide with each other, minds get hooked with a romantic desire, bodies becomes electrified and thrust to hold each other in a tight embrace. A love story; thus begun at the speed of an eye blink! Gradually the relationship grows into a full bloomed romance and it is at this moment, when reality strikes fantasy and filmy ideas, many of them actually gets troubled with the thought that 'Am I really compatible with my special one?

Relationships are beautiful and at the same time complex for many reasons. Even the sweetest romantic relationships go complex when partners are not compatible enough to each other. When debating on compatibility there is a possible question that can arise from many of you, that if relationships are to be compatible why can't people go only for compatible relationships? The best possible answer to this question is that relationships are most of the time just happened rather planned.

When it comes to love and romance it is sheer ecstasy that attracts most of them and there is little time left in between an eye stroke or a romantic bond to decide over the compatibility of both partners. If you are blessed with the perfect of lucks you may find the special one just made for you or else may end up in a relationship where you may struggle to be compatible with your partner that may lead to tragic breakups that shakes the strings of your mind.

Compatibility and incompatibility has their own roles in a relation. Relations are the agglutination of minds with the same wavelength of thoughts, likes, dislikes and mentality. People with differences can also make perfect pairs as more understanding and sharing needed in such relations to cover up the pits of differences. When thinking of compatibility consider your and your partner's education, career, money, cultural background, lifestyle, sexual preferences, family, friends, values, beliefs and personality etc... into the prime importance.

It is necessary to know how to find a compatible partner, or in other words how to know if you are compatible with the special one you found. When searching for a soul mate people wonder what the best ways to find a mate that you're compatible with, might be? Keeping an eye on few visible basics may help you to find a compatible mate.

You can never demand for a person with similar personality as yours. Personalities differ and never are totally alike. Different personalities can bring new kinds of strength and joy to each other. The essence of true relationship is in accepting and loving the other person with all the differences. When both the partners share similar personalities, it is easy for them to be close to heart as they have same comfort zones, mind frames and thinking pattern. Personality differences can never be told less compatible or more compatible as both similarities and dissimilarities are beneficial in relationships.

Paying attention to life goals is an effective way of knowing compatibility, as it is the life goals that mould a person. Make sure that you have similar ideas about the best places to live, what kind of jobs you want, and the way you want to live your lives. While taking a decision about your life consider the life in long run, not the immediate future. Similar interests sounds sensible when thinking about compatibility. If interests contrast it may drag people poles apart to each other.

When measuring your compatibility with your partner, it is your mindsets that is to be considered as the scale. Some may be concerned about social status, money, job etc.. But for some people it may be only the heartfelt love that matters. Remember the best way to find out whether you and your mate is compatible is to listen to your inner voice. If your conscience says that both of you feel better at the presence of the other one, you are compatible enough. If you are loved to the extend of your wishes and if you are filled with love at the presence your your partner, you are compatible enough and of course made for each other.

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