You are certain something is wrong yet you can't figure out what! You feel that your partner has become so distant you can't make contact. Though such feelings have not been communicated openly you suspect that your partner is no more in love with you.
Here are five indications that your partner is no more in love with you.
Making a wish list of traits for the ideal mate is not too calculating. But sometimes what seems to be a plus can be a minus. For example, a rich man might want a beautiful wife (you) to drape over his arm, and you could end up an economic captive, doing his bidding - until he dumps you for a trophy wife years later. And the proverbial tall, dark and handsome man might be so conceited; you wouldn't be able to bear him for long. Sure, you need a man who is reasonably solvent, and handsome can't hurt, but what really makes good husband material is the stuff that's on the inside, as follows:
1) " I need my privacy "
A sudden desire for privacy is often an indication that there is someone else on the scene and your partner is seeking ways to have more freedom. This is a defensive statement made to hide activities that your spouse knows would cause an uproar.
2) " I want to be left alone "
Working late, going in and out at odd hours, or adamantly wanting to be left alone for long hours can also be an indication that your mate does not love you. Certainly, all of us are subject to increased workloads, so watch for other signs as well. For example, having a secret email account, which you are unaware of, should be treated as a warning.
3) No appreciation
If your acts of giving do not seem to have much effect on your partner, it is a sure sign that you no longer interest your partner.
4) Change of attitude
If your partner shows a sudden interest in a different type of music or activity, or does something that previously he/ she never enjoyed, spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep, seems less comfortable around you and is touchy or he/she has a definite change in attitude towards you when at home is a sign that he isn't interested in you.
5) Extra marital affair
When you find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse. You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice. Your partner uses a low voice or whispers on the phone or hangs up quickly and begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID. Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house are indications that he is having an affair.
Here are five indications that your partner is no more in love with you.
Making a wish list of traits for the ideal mate is not too calculating. But sometimes what seems to be a plus can be a minus. For example, a rich man might want a beautiful wife (you) to drape over his arm, and you could end up an economic captive, doing his bidding - until he dumps you for a trophy wife years later. And the proverbial tall, dark and handsome man might be so conceited; you wouldn't be able to bear him for long. Sure, you need a man who is reasonably solvent, and handsome can't hurt, but what really makes good husband material is the stuff that's on the inside, as follows:
1) " I need my privacy "
A sudden desire for privacy is often an indication that there is someone else on the scene and your partner is seeking ways to have more freedom. This is a defensive statement made to hide activities that your spouse knows would cause an uproar.
2) " I want to be left alone "
Working late, going in and out at odd hours, or adamantly wanting to be left alone for long hours can also be an indication that your mate does not love you. Certainly, all of us are subject to increased workloads, so watch for other signs as well. For example, having a secret email account, which you are unaware of, should be treated as a warning.
3) No appreciation
If your acts of giving do not seem to have much effect on your partner, it is a sure sign that you no longer interest your partner.
4) Change of attitude
If your partner shows a sudden interest in a different type of music or activity, or does something that previously he/ she never enjoyed, spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep, seems less comfortable around you and is touchy or he/she has a definite change in attitude towards you when at home is a sign that he isn't interested in you.
5) Extra marital affair
When you find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse. You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice. Your partner uses a low voice or whispers on the phone or hangs up quickly and begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID. Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house are indications that he is having an affair.
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