Is it time?

HI All Wow it's been what feels like a life time since I last posted on here. Think it's time I revive this blog. Keep reading for an update on what's been going on and maybe I'll include some writing from a more personal perspective. That could prove quite interesting............ ...

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How can I go on after the breakup?

After a breakup or divorce, thoughts like these may crossyour mind once-- or many, many times:  "I don't know how I will go on without her."  "How will I ever make it without him in my life?"  Especially if the breakup was not your idea, you may behaving a difficult time grappling with the prospect ofliving life without the relationship that just ended.  Where you sit right now, it might seem nearly impossible for you to go on without the man or woman you used to (and maybe still do) love.  Even if you agree that ending the relationship is truly forthe best and even if breaking up has brought some relief,you might also worry about how you will make it on your own.For some people, the idea of being alone is scary and makesthem...

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5 ways to help you get over your breakup pain faster‏

We all talk to ourselves all of the time and this is what we calling'self talk.' These thoughts come and go in our minds and they caneither help us go through life with relative ease or struggling atevery step of the way.In our experience, this 'self talk' can either keep you stuck in thepast--mulling over what went wrong or what you should have donedifferently--or stuck in the future--worrying about what might happen at some point down the road.Or 'self talk' can help you to stay in the present moment, dealingpractically with what's happening right now, and move powerfully andpositively into your future.One of the best kept secrets is that you can change your thoughts.Believe it or not, many people learn how to do it.Here are 5 ways to change 'self talk' to help you ease your pain from...

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Afraid you're never going to get over this feeling after your break-up?‏

If you've ever felt like you're never going to get over this feeling after your breakup You might feel like the sadness, anger and other intense emotions are here to stay.It can even seem like little else is going on in your lifebut your broken heart pain. We're here to tell you that your can heal. No matter howtroubling your breakup was, you can feel better, even happy,again. It all starts with a choice and a shift. Make the choice to heal. As simplistic as it may sound, when you make a deliberatedecision to turn toward healing, you can often make hugestrides toward that goal. Sometimes, we cling to our painful thoughts and memoriesaround the breakup because we are afraid that if we let goof the agony, we will negate any chance there might be(especially...

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Depressed after your breakup? Here's some good advice...

When you watch television or read a magazine, it's hard tomiss the many ads for prescription medications used to treatdepression. As you hear the symptoms of depression listed on air or themagazine page, you might begin to wonder if your brokenheart pain has turned into full-blown clinical depression. This is a valid concern. If you are depressed, it isimportant that you obtain the help you need to move throughthis difficult time. However, rushing to your doctor to get a prescription fordepression medication does not necessarily have to be yournext step. We don't want you to take risks with your mental health andwe are not trained to diagnose depression or any othermedical condition. We do want to share with you some information that can helpyou find greater ease and...

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One way to support yourself as you go through your break-up...‏

Open Up to Support As You Go Through Your Break-UpThere are support groups for just about everything thesedays. You can find these groups on the internet and at yourchurch or community center. Support groups for those who are going through divorce or abreakup are certainly available. The potential challenge with such groups is that they don'talways provide the kind of support that you might truly needin order to heal your broken heart. Don't get us wrong. We are not advising you to steer clearof support groups. What we do encourage you to do is to become clear about whatspecific kind of support you want and then make sure thatthe group or resource will provide that. "Surround yourself with only people who are going to liftyou higher," talk show host, philanthropist...

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