Express The Magical Words-'I Love you'

You have been admiring that girl walk past your home everyday, you see her in the supermarket and you cant say a thing, you see her at your college but you cant express your love for her. You might be one of those shy boys who just cant walk up to a girl and tell her that you love her. Perhaps these unique ways to say I love you might just help you get her to notice your feelings and who knows things might just click between the two of you!
Here are some unique ways to say I love you to the one you are dying to express love too!

1.The best way to express love is by giving her a big crazy card. Tell her how your feeling in the form of words and this will make her weak in the knees.

2.Take her for a long walk and suddenly hold on to her hand gently. Look into her eyes and say I love you. You will notice that she might be at first lost for words but she will come around and will definitely respond.

3.If you are all set to meet the girl of your dreams, the first thing you do when you meet her is to stretch out your arms and hug her first. Women love warm hugs so it might be the trick to express love. While you hold her in your arms whisper in her ear, the three magical words, I love you.

4.Magical way to express love is while you are both are into an intimate conversation, blurt out the words I love you. This will make her think at first whether you were actually paying heed to her conversation, although do not forget to listen to what she says.

5.To express love, you can either do is directly or to have a little fun while you play an indirect game of love. Telling her indirectly how you feel can make the moment feel more special and romantic. Words like your my smile, your the apple of my eye, your one in a million can make her wonder whats going on in your thoughts and thus get the idea you have fallen for her.

These are five and out of the box romantic ways to pour your heart out!

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Dating Tips For A Better Future

The first and foremost dating tip is to be very careful about what you say. You can never take back your words and if you have said it to a women, then there is not even the faintest possibility of it being forgotten. Thus, men should remember to be very careful when they say something to women and more so when they ask questions.

Keeping this in mind David DeAngelo, has written a list of 10 top dating tips in his book "Double Your Dating", to guide men on what they should never say to women. According to the author, it is better to be careful before you speak than regretting about what you said afterwards. Lets look at the dating tips.

1. Never ask for a kiss. Asking for a kiss, makes a man look like a boy and women like to be along with a man. Even if she is polite at your request, she might not mean it actually. Let the kiss happen naturally, in the course of time as the relationship grows.

2. Don't ask her whether she would like to go for a date. A women likes a man of authority and women also love surprises. Thus, you should just invite her and let it turn out to be the most memorable date. She would love the surprise and your by the end of the day you would have set a good impression.

3. Never boast of your richness or status. This never impresses a girl, rather bores her to the core. A women always respects a man, who is down to earth and modest. A modest man according to women are more reliable.

4. Never entitle her to make a plan. As mentioned earlier, girls love surprises. Make a plan for her and let it be exotic. This is your chance of proving how romantic and lovable you are.

5. Don't pester her by asking what she thinks of you. This really puts her off. If she likes you, she will surely drop cues and it's your caliber to understand them. Assume that she like you. If you are sure, it will make her sure.

6. Don't force her to answer calls or messages. She will accept you to do so but if you don't you will prove yourself to be a chilled out man and one who, has self-respect. Boys who prove themselves to be submissive, are not respected.

7. Don't ask about her past. She will tell you as she get comfortable. Asking her might put her off or make her feel insecure. This will also show your insecurity.

8. When one date is over, don't post a question about the next one. This will show you to be over excited. Be patient and let her wait for you to ask.

9. Avoid length conversation. Maintain the eagerness. It will keep your relationship exciting.

10. Be secured with her guy friends. Your insecurity will not be taken as care but as threat to her freedom.

These ten dating tips will ensure a good relationship further and also grow respect for each other.

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The Importance Of Wedding Vows!

You have found the man of your dreams and all set to walk down the aisle. But there is one thing at the back of your mind which is really disturbing you before D-day and that is the 'wedding vows'.

The importance of Wedding vows really struck me recently. Scene:  the blushing bride and the handsome groom stood in front of each other and when it came to the vows, they were struck by lightening! Knowing each other for 6-years and lost in words to express their love for each other astonished the crowd. Embarrassed by the whole situation, the priest had to continue with the wedding leaving behind the most important aspect , the 'wedding vows'. To people, this Christian wedding felt incomplete because it is said that in most Christian weddings, the vows are essential as it brings out the expressions of the heart.This wedding soon became the talk of the town, as many believed that the bride and groom really did'nt know each other before they said, 'I do' and suprinsgly the couple felt the same!

When it comes to a Christian wedding ceremony or any other, wedding vows are ideal, for everyone gathered would like to know why you chose your partner standing before you at the altar. For most brides and grooms to be, they fear the time when they have to put their thoughts on a piece of paper. But for a handful of happy couples, it is different for they are indeed ready with a whole list of expressions they can tell their partner on the wedding day.

If you know the person you are in love, standing before you at the altar on your wedding day, then wedding vows should indeed be easy for you to express.

But, for those of you who need help with vows, the only way out is to spend time some time alone , and question yourself how he/she is important to you, reflect back on those days when you first met each other, think about all the happy and sad moments you shared and I'm sure you will run out of ink once you put pen to paper!

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What women want... from their husbands

We expect a lot from our spouses: a shoulder to lean on, taking care of various things, and a true partner. But are there certain, more specific things that women really want from their husbands? Definitely!
Don't be sparing with your "I love yous"
One of the primary things a woman wants from her husband requires nearly no effort on his part.
Women want to be told they are loved and not just occasionally … every single day.
Studies have indicated that relationships where the words are actually said every day are stronger than those where "I love you" is said less frequently.
Be understanding and forgiving
Understanding and forgiveness are also high on the list. Everyone makes mistakes, so it’s imperative that we all learn how to get over these.
Women often feel the desire to make things as perfect as possible for their husbands and families, and will worry and fret over insignificant details, like when dinner gets burned or isn’t ready exactly on time.
A husband’s reaction to these times is essential to helping lay the foundation for handling larger problems.
Sharing and communication

Women are, by nature, sharing creatures. They like to share life stories, experiences, and emotions with their friends, families, and especially their husbands - and they also want others to share these same things with them.
It’s very upsetting when you feel someone isn’t listening or willing to share in return. This is the vital factor of communication in a marriage, and is one of the top reasons marriages break up.

Communication between a husband and wife shouldn’t just revolve around the kids or work (that’s usually a sign that the marriage is in trouble). There should be talk of the future, the past, hopes, dreams, disappointments, pretty much everything and anything.
Sharing responsibilities
Sharing responsibilities is another important aspect women want from their husbands. It’s also one of the most common causes for martial spats. Taking care of the house and children should not fall solely on the shoulders of the wife.
Everyone who lives in a household - including the kids - should help out (without being asked, told, or nagged).
Give her some time off
Something small that husbands can do for their wives is to build in some time for her to have some time off from work. This doesn’t just mean having weekends where she doesn’t have to go to the office, it includes days where she doesn’t have to take care of the kids or the house.
In many households men work one job where they leave the house for eight or more hours and come home to dinner and then watch TV.

Many women leave the house for eight or more hours to work in an office, come home to work some more (fixing dinner, cleaning, taking care of kids) and then go to bed. Where’s the downtime? Everyone needs some time to rest, relax, and rejuvenate.
Men who want happy wives and solid relationships can help by ensuring this need is met.

One of the most surprising things to most men is that what women really want from them usually doesn’t cost money – it doesn’t generally take too much time or effort either. What women want from men is a partner they can rely on, talk to, and share with. It’s that simple.

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4 simple steps to stop all BAD behaviour

Use this great free relationship advice to stop doing what drives you and your partner crazy.
Can you imagine what your relationship would be like if you could stop…
• Being so sensitive
• Getting mad so quickly
• Feeling left out
• Telling little white lies
• Flirting to get attention
• Giving him the silent treatment
• Ignoring her opinion
• Getting your feelings hurt
Are you plagued by any of these or other similar annoying behavior?
You’re about to give your loved one a great gift! Yup, you’re going to stop doing what drives you and your partner crazy.
How?
By following these
4 Simple Steps to STOP Doing Most Anything


Step 1 - New Behavior
First of all you need to decide what you want to replace your unwanted behavior with. If you only think about what you don’t want to do, your behavior cannot change. You must carefully consider what you want to do.


Step 2 - STOP Sign
The next time you find yourself starting into your unwanted behavior do this. Imagine a huge STOP sign popping up in front of you. Literally stop whatever you are doing and replace it with the New Behavior.


Step 3 - Rehearse
In the privacy of your home mentally rehearse or physically act out your New Behavior (what you’re going to do and say) in multiple situations you find you kick into your unwanted behavior. Do this more than once. Do it every time you slip back into the old behavior.


Step 4 - Secret Signal
Get your partner involved. Between the two of you decide on a secret signal, a signal that she or he will give you when she or he sees you getting into your unwanted behavior.
That's it, real simple yet very effective.
This will be a great help to you and will do another very important thing, by involving your partner it shows her/him how serious you are about changing.
Follow each of these steps carefully and review them from time to time. Don’t expect perfection the first time you’re out there, but keep working at it.
Remember, it probably took you a long time to develop your unwanted behavior it will take some time to apply and live your New Behavior.
Good luck and God bless.

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Can you get AIDS from oral sex?

With the plethora of information existing about the transmission of HIV and AIDS, it hasbecome harder and harder to separate fact from fiction. We tackle the transmission via oral sex issue.....
There are still many questions being asked about the virus, primarily exactly how it can be passed from one person to another. Some people believe that oral sex is a way of side stepping the issue, but the reality is a lot bleaker than you’d think.

Since the HIV virus is transmitted via blood, semen or vaginal fluid, any activity which involves exposure to these substances necessarily leaves one open to contracting the virus, which can eventually evolve into full blown AIDS. 
Safe sex or abstinence remain the only options for avoiding transmission entirely.
It has been proven that HIV can be contracted through oral sex with an infected individual

While statistics as to the degree of risk involved with oral sex are not known, it has been proven that HIV can be contracted through oral sex with an infected individual. And it can happen whether the infected partner is giving or receiving oral sex.  
Transmission this way is less common than it is with unprotected vaginal or anal sex, but it is still a very real possibility.

Exactly what are your risks?
If the person performing oral sex has HIV, the virus can enter their partner when blood from their mouth enters the urethra or vagina or enters open cuts or sores anywhere on the body. The risk of exposure is equally high if the person receiving oral sex has the virus and their blood, semen or vaginal fluid enters their partner’s system through cells lining the mouth.

The risk can be further increased if the person receiving oral sex ejaculates into the mouth of their partner or if they have another STD, which compromises their immune system. Simply put, with the exchange of bodily fluids it is almost impossible to avoid the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV and AIDS.


Precautions to reduce your risk of HIV infection

Of course, as with other forms of sex, there are precautions which can be taken which can help to reduce your risk of infection.
Using a condom is the most responsible option, offering both partners peace of mind. If one or both partners have an allergy to latex, plastic condoms are also available. 
Other forms of protection including a dental dam or a condom cut open into a square and placed over the vagina can offer a further barrier to fluid transmission during oral sex.


Avoid oral sex if you have open cuts in your mouth

Anyone with open sores on or in their mouth should avoid engaging in oral sex as this leaves them wide open to any number of bacteria and viruses entering directly into their bloodstream. If you or your partner are aware that you are HIV positive, you should exercise extreme caution when considering sexual intercourse of any kind.

When it comes to HIV and AIDS, there is no such thing as being too careful
Don’t assume that oral sex will give you a safe way around the subject.  Nothing is guaranteed except sex with protection or abstinence.  Whatever you opt to do, make sure you take every possible precaution. Your health is too precious to risk … for the prospect of an evening’s pleasure!

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How to read a guy's body language

Want to know what he’s thinking? Watch his body language.
Some men can be very difficult to read
Many men are trained from an early age to hide their emotions, since expressing feelings is a very un-macho thing to do. Therefore, we are often left trying to decipher what a guy may or not be feeling from his body language.  

It can be a tricky proposition, but if you know certain signs to look for, you might be able to work out what he is thinking.

Always start with the eyes

Eyes are the window to the soul and we can certainly give away a lot about what we’re feeling with our eyes. Even the slightest raising of the eyebrows can be an indication of interest. He’s opening his eyes wider, showing that he wants to know more about you. 

It’s when his eyes remain steady or his brows droop that you have to watch out; that’s a sign of boredom.

There are other ways that a guy can let you know his interest has been piqued; some of them not even conscious

Often we react without even realising that we’re doing it. Men are no exception to this rule. If he sits with certain body parts, such as the legs, feet or eyes, pointing towards you that means he is interested in you. 

If they point away, he may already be contemplating finding the exit!

Like the males of most species, men will automatically try to make themselves look more attractive to a female in order to draw her in.

If he’s straightening his tie, brushing at his lapel or fixing his hair, it is a sign of 'preening'. He’s making himself look more attractive because he likes you and wants to make sure that the feeling is mutual.

Stance can be equally telling

A man who is standing erect with his hands on his hips or at his sides and his chest out is showing you that he’s confident and interested and that he welcomes attention. A man who closes up by crossing his arms over his chest or sticking his hands in his pockets probably lacks self confidence or may just lack interest.

You should always be on the lookout for negative body language

Lack of eye contact, mumbling, extraneous body movements and similar gestures are signs that he is either uncomfortable or disinterested.  

If he is sending these kinds of signals, you should probably consider moving on and not wasting your time.

Positive male body language

On the other hand, positive body language can show you that you’ve got the green light for a potential relationship.

Touching the small of your back, leaning toward you while talking, 'accidental' touching or hooking his thumbs into his belt are all signs that he is interested and is trying to make a good impression on you and you can go from there.
The main thing to remember is that men rarely express their feelings overtly

The signs are usually very subtle and sometimes even unconscious, which makes them that much harder to read. But if you pay close attention and look for the most common signals, you should be able to gauge whether your evening is going in the right direction or not.   

If you want to know how he feels, just pay attention and listen to what his body is telling you!

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